Going Deeper with the Word – Why Should You Love Your Enemies? How Can We Do That?

In today’s “Going Deeper with the Word” segment, we continue our discussion around enemies and how to love them.  God’s Word contains many references to instructions on the subject of enemies and how to deal with them.

Let’s review several scriptures taken from the Amplified Bible which can serve to lead and guide our steps and back up the principles we described in today’s message.

But I say to you, [a]love [that is, unselfishly seek the best or higher good for] your enemies and pray for those who persecute you

Matthew 5:44

In this scripture, Jesus explains that in the face of persecution, we should aim to do what is needed to benefit the individual who persecutes us. As we have discussed, this can be very difficult – especially in the midst of pain, but thankfully we can turn to the Lord to equip us with the strength to do so.

Do not rejoice and gloat when your enemy falls,
And do not let your heart be glad [in self-righteousness] when he stumbles,

Proverbs 24:17

In this scripture, we confront a harsh reality of human nature, which is to experience joy when someone considered our enemy is suffering.  Solomon explains that we should resist this temptation.  Instead, we should seek the strength to find empathy and compassion.  Yes, when appropriate and safe to do so, we should find in our hearts to lift up someone in need – even if they are an enemy.

Let’s look at one more verse about loving your enemy.

and never return evil for evil or insult for insult [avoid scolding, berating, and any kind of abuse], but on the contrary, give a blessing [pray for one another’s well-being, contentment, and protection]; for you have been called for this very purpose, that you might inherit a blessing [from God that brings well-being, happiness, and protection].

1 Peter 3:9

In this scripture, Peter explains the importance of not seeking evil for evil done to us.  In other words, we should not seek vengeance for wrongs done to us.  In fact, Peter goes on to explain that we should bless our enemies.  Bless those who have wronged you.  In all circumstances, we should leave vengeance to the Lord.

As we mentioned earlier in the message, I encourage you to ask God for wisdom as to how to deal with your enemies.  How to be strong against them, how to resist the temptation to trade insult for an insult.  How to actually bless them and show the Light of the Lord that lives in you.